Khamis, September 10, 2009

Making Love, Not War

Being someone who loves Indonesia (and, ehem...its people), I can't help feeling concern, and a bit disturbed, with what's happening to the relationship between Malaysia and Indonesia. Bak kata pepatah Melayu, kerana nila setitik, rosak susu sebelanga. Kerana sesetengah pihak, akan rosakkah hubungan baik 2 negara? Mudah2an tidak, aminn, aminn, aminnn.


Make love, not war.
(just, don't make love siang2 di waktu Ramadhan. Batal puasa nanti)

Just wanna share this article nicely written by my bro, Akhyari. You can also check out his blog here for more Good News From Indonesia.

Keep us Dangerously Beautiful

I was driving with my friends from Leicester to London when i found the coldness could no longer be tolerated, and we decided to stop by local coffee shop, A Tower1 coffee. A-GBP-6-cup of coffee finally helped us ease the extreme coldness, before i realized that there was a small yellow sticker sticked to the cash machine, something i really recognized,"TRAVEL WARNING - INDONESIA : Dangerously Beautiful"

My boss, an English national, once told me like this :
"Arry, i have been travelling to over 60 countries worldwide, and I find that Indonesians are the friendliest people on earth". When i tried to ask further about that, he continued " I wanna spend my remaining years in Indonesia, would you mind find me a good place in Yogyakarta, or west java, or Bali?" I then realized that it was no need to argue him. I have been living among indonesians for over 30 years, and i find that he was right. We are used to help people, tolerate others' stand, respective, and passionate.

These days, Indonesia sees a heighten tension with its neighbor Malaysia over several issues. GNFI agrees that some remaining issues should not be left unsolved, both countries should really sit together with the spirit of equality, understanding, and for the sake of long-term friendship. Both sides then should really adopt and follow what is decided during the talk, with no reserve.

GNFI would like to use this opportunity to ask you Indonesians to uphold the spirit of friendship and mutual need during any rally or demonstration. We should adopt a friendlier demonstration, instead of burning flag, blocking road, and sealing the embassy's gate with our flag. Those kinda things will not resolve anything, instead, it damages our reputation as a "civilized" society.

I met some angry students of Indonesians visiting Phnom Penh few months back, over the repeated physical abuse of indonesian migrant worker in Malaysia, which that time happened to take Siti Hajar as the victim. In time like this, Indonesians have been continuosly taught to let the heart heated, but keep the head cool. Some javanese provebs also told us to Fight fire with water, not with fire.

Please please I request you to stop any harsh action towards Malaysia, its people, and its interest anywhere, cause believe me, with a peaceful demonstration, your message will be more easier to be delivered and heard. I am so sure, the messages to the malaysian government have been clearly read and thought. We have seen some good progress as part of the result of good effort to ease the tension. We have seen some malaysian programs aired in our TVs, our drama actors and actress spends days to learn to speak Malay, and there have been a clear standing from our government over the tension.

I love Indonesia more that some Indonesian do, I'd gladly sacrifice my life for the sake of Indonesia and its people, but I'd die in honor and dignity.

In that coffee shop, i encouraged myself to talk with the cashier and ask her where did they get the sticker. Amanda, her name, replied "oh, i just returned from Indonesia 2 weeks ago, and someone gave me the sticker for free". I bombarded her with more question "You agree with the remark?". She replied "Oh, absolutely. The people were really nice".

"Hey, i think you must remove the sticker, else your boss will do" i continued. She said and asked me "Thank you, I am the boss. Hey, are you Indonesian?"

I surely am, Amanda!

Thanks, Bro.

As for me, it's not just about, being nice to your neighbours (btw jiran saya baik, tiap2 tahun bagi kurma sekilo. Boleh brag about dapat kurma Papa Rock. Eh ok lari topik) or about showing who loves their country more by burning down other country's flags, nor about claiming things unrightfully theirs,

It's about being a good human being. To not underestimate people, to be respectful, to be humble, to be kind, to be honest, to be what God created you to be.

Dah dah jangan gaduh, mari kita makan kacang.

4 ulasan:

Cah Ayu berkata...


IndonesiaOne berkata...

perbedaan adalah sesuatu yang indah, saling menghargai, saling menghormati, hindari menjadi pribadi yg merasa lebih sempurna karena kesempurnaan itu hanya milik Tuhan YME...

Cah Ayu berkata...

Setoojoo IndonesiaOne.

brad berkata...

i agree with the last remark, jangan saling merendahkan. And I thankfully agreee with malaysian move to ease the tension, instead of confronting it. However, salam jitak untuk khairy Jamaluddin yang childish. belum pernah makan kulit durian dia..hehehehe

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